Posts Tagged ‘hatred’

Not all people have the guts to pretend how strong they are. They stumble down, they also get hurt, they lose, and they give up. People are human beings that are expected to be influenced by their surroundings- bound for heartaches and disappointments.

Pain is always around. The thing is that, pain is just waiting for someone to burst all the tears out and be affected. The distress will always make a person down. The discomfort one feels can make one desperate to make irrational decisions which they think is right. It’s a defense mechanism. All the pain felt will give out lessons, and that lessons will change a person.

Actually, it depends to the person if he/she will let the pain endure his/her being. Some savour it while it lasts because they know that it will pass eventually. Many don’t know how to cope up with it and fail to surpass it. But for a few, they endure it, use it to change their mind set, perspective and all the things they can change. It’s not about revenge; it’s about dealing with shit and staying strong.

We are living in a world of uncertainties. The best way to not get your heart broken is to pretend that you don’t have one. Some people really pull out the best in you. However, it’s better to treat everyone you meet as if they were going to die by midnight. Extend to them all the care, kindness, and understanding you can muster, and do it with no thought of any reward. Guess your life will never ever be the same again.

Walking away has nothing to do with weakness and everything to do with strength. People walk away not because they want others to realize their worth and value, but because they finally realize their own. Maybe, there is something they’re afraid to say, or someone they’re afraid to love, or somewhere they’re afraid to go. One thing is for sure, it’s gonna hurt like hell. It’s gonna hurt because it matters.

In life, there are some people you’re going to have lose in order to find yourself. Others signify that everybody has gone through something that has changed them in a way that they could never go back to the person they once were.

Really, that’s the thing about pain; it demands to be felt.

Love comes during the times we don’t expect it. We get hurt without us knowing. We get betrayed without our consent. But that’s what life is all about. Sometimes, we never have an idea what’s best for us.

How hard is it to let go of a 6-year relationship? One may have doubts to see the time wasted. Or maybe, one has the capacity to look over one’s self-pity for spending quite some time over the dramas. One must realize that it is one great strategy to end up the crazy fights. Also, possibility would be, one would be thankful for having the ability to do whatever they wanted to- single.

Love is ruined not always by third party or ruined trust. There will always come a time that both of you are tired. Tired of making an effort, tired of understanding, tired of showing how grateful you are to have each other. Maybe, one has realized that it really is true love, but in contrary, hurt by the fact that true love has its requirements to work.

You know you love each other so much but the circumstances won’t allow to keep you pursuing. That love wouldn’t keep you alive forever. That love tested by time can’t keep you guaranteed that you will always be loved forever. That love can’t keep the both of you faithful to each other. Many doubts will enter in to your mind, I guess one has to deal with it.

Most of the time, there are really things that should come to an end. One might want to deal with it for the rest of eternity, but hail to the ones who realizes self-respect. As the old saying goes, in every ending, there’s a new beginning. One may wonder of the future possibilities of getting back together in the future sooner or later, but fate has its own destiny. One may want to draw his/her destined path, but it will always be the fate.

Sometimes understanding is better than love. Try to understand people and one will be less hurt. In a relationship, there should always be a time spent away from each other.

Love fades away if the hearts grow apart. That ends my love story.